Rumble Tumble, Gotta be Humble [Noodle]

Momogari · Post by **Momogari** » 19 May 2021, 23:03

I mostly can't say anything that would help, but I'm sorry.

"On the spectrum" sounds like "mild case", and if that's the case, I feel like I've seen people treat that as not a big deal.

And even if so, I think the failure that one can be set up for at 5 is limited to the time they spend before attaining real maturity, and while it's true some people never mature, there's no reason to think that's going to be the case for him, so whatever this childhood and later young adulthood will put on him will be dust in the wind when he has a wife and a good job. Very little that happens in childhood last longer than childhood. I think, anyway. At least that was the case for me.

I don't know if that helps or not. Probably not. I have zero experience in being Theo or you.

Noodle · Post by **Noodle** » 27 May 2021, 14:03

Things are okay.

Thank you Momo for your input, I appreciate it a lot. It was all hard to process, within the past week it’s been alright, and co workers who I’m close to had also said to get other evaluations from his pediatrician or a referral to a child psychologist.

Today is the last day of school for Theo! Summer break starts at noon, and we will be going to the Zoo today! That’s about an hour’s drive for the zoo we are going to.

Currently taking the time to get ready for the rest of the day. Showering, packing up for our trip

And… watching the 90 Day Fiancé : Single Life Tell All

YAY TRASH TV.

Noodle · Post by **Noodle** » 22 Jun 2021, 03:21

A lot has happened the last month or so.

Was told that we shouldn’t be together anymore. There’s still attraction but there’s no… together ness anymore. Co parenting to the best of our ability. I’ve moved into a new place. Trying to figure out the single life and just getting to know people again.

Kind of went out on a date Friday. But I’ve been out with them before, they’re really sweet, they smell nice, but they don’t know what exactly they want for themselves so that’s a bit of a let down. That’s how we ended things before.

So. Sigh.

Noodle · Post by **Noodle** » 12 Aug 2021, 00:55

Haha wow. Update for sure.

That guy I went out on a date with, we are together now. I called him out on his bullshit from last time, and I was very specific, if you don’t want these things (I.e. Marriage possibly another kid) then I don’t want to mess with you, and we need to call this date off right here and now.

SOOOOOOOOOOO. He said he is okay with this! Not a proposal of course yet, cause it’s way too soon, but this gives us time to learn about one another again.. see what makes us tick and all that

And things are good!

Co Parenting with my child’s father is another story for another day. Long story short, he is a piece of work.. says one thing and does another. So it’s added stresses in my life. He believes Abby (my youngest) is a pain to watch, and can’t watch her 45 minutes before he needs to pick up Theo from school . I do this all the time, watching them no problem, I do what I need to do, and I work around it. He makes it seem like he has to stop doing whatever he’s doing for the day.

Ive been ranting to my boyfriend, and he feels like it isn’t right what he’s doing. I had told him, that i wish that (my guy) loves my two kids just as much as he loves his daughter (she will be 10 in October). He said that he knew what he was getting into, and will love my kids just as much as he loves me (obviously will love me more, but you know what I mean)
I don’t have to walk on eggshells with my man… I am my comfortable happy self. I can talk to him about anything, I am emotionally and physically attracted to him.

Boy does he smell nice

I miss feeling like this and I haven’t felt like this in a long time. I am happy for once… It feels really nice.

Post by **PharaohAtem** » 12 Aug 2021, 02:16

I'm glad you found a good guy, there so hard to find these days. Glad your kids are doing good. Your a great mom. Nice seeing you again here as well.

Noodle · Post by **Noodle** » 12 Aug 2021, 02:34

Thank you Atem

it’s been awhile since I have truly been on here, and I miss it. ;_;

I hope you’re doing well.

Momogari · Post by **Momogari** » 12 Aug 2021, 02:36

Being on the same page is certainly a good thing. I'm glad you're happy.

Post by **PharaohAtem** » 12 Aug 2021, 03:20

Noodle wrote: ↑
12 Aug 2021, 02:34
Thank you Atem it’s been awhile since I have truly been on here, and I miss it. ;_;

I hope you’re doing well.

I'm doing good.

Noodle · Post by **Noodle** » 28 Sep 2021, 23:06

https://postimg.cc/k6hBZkqj

Look how cute we are.

Post by **PharaohAtem** » 28 Sep 2021, 23:18

You look happy and yes cute pocture.

Noodle · Post by **Noodle** » 28 Sep 2021, 23:28

He’s amazing

Post by **PharaohAtem** » 28 Sep 2021, 23:31

Good I'm glad yiu found a good guy. I have a niece I should post a pick she's almost 2 months so still a baby

Noodle · Post by **Noodle** » 15 Oct 2021, 05:29

Feeling pretty tipsy. Been drinking.

Update all is well. Living life. Kind of around and I feel like I should be around more around here. I miss you all. Just life gets ahead of me sometimes. Kids are a handful of course. Boyfriend is good.

Went out to the state fair of Texas with my boyfriends daughter and my kids along with me mom. We spent some money but really enjoyed our time together.

I’ve met his family. They’re really sweet and act like they care. They’re a big chaotic but they’re cool nonetheless.

YouTube · Post by **GraceMellody** » 28 Oct 2021, 10:32

Noodle wrote: ↑
15 Oct 2021, 05:29
Feeling pretty tipsy. Been drinking.

Update all is well. Living life. Kind of around and I feel like I should be around more around here. I miss you all. Just life gets ahead of me sometimes. Kids are a handful of course. Boyfriend is good.

Went out to the state fair of Texas with my boyfriends daughter and my kids along with me mom. We spent some money but really enjoyed our time together.

I’ve met his family. They’re really sweet and act like they care. They’re a big chaotic but they’re cool nonetheless.

naughty noodle being tipsy!

That sounds so good! Sometimes chaotic energy is positive

Noodle · Post by **Noodle** » 02 Nov 2021, 03:43

I haven’t felt the need to be tipsy in a long time thankfully. Lol.

Rob and I are going for our little getaway weekend soon and I can’t wait.

later this month.