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Post by djd001 » 22 May 2023, 21:09

Elgood81 wrote:
22 May 2023, 13:24
I’m gonna have to get used to being single and alone made me feel worthless.
No.
Just no.
You are not worthless, and being single isn't bad, it gives you a sense of self discovery, if you've been in a long term relationship, I've been where you are, doing what you want, when you want, your way is liberating. But you are not alone, we got you online alone.
Get a Mojito in you, and enjoy your holiday. *virtual hugs*

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Post by LilMissLarBear » 23 May 2023, 08:32

feeling quite tired/drained
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Post by UnmeiNoTenshi » 23 May 2023, 11:17

Well after a customer in work yesterday told a member of my staff that I pretty much need to be sacked I've been feeling pretty shitty since then, especially after I got shown a Facebook post they made saying the exact same thing again.

Applied for another job had had what I think was a pretty good interview less than 24 hours later so fingers crossed I can move on.
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Post by lolin » 23 May 2023, 13:10

i'm wakin up
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Post by TheRedWarrior » 23 May 2023, 18:45

I am tired but alright


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Post by Elgood81 » 23 May 2023, 19:17

today I feel like a 3 on a scale of 1 to 10. Don’t feel any better but I don’t feel any worse. I’m just worried that I’m gonna start comfort eating again and gain yet more weight. A battle that I’m fighting and currently loosing
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Post by Beex » 23 May 2023, 19:38

Elgood81 wrote:
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today I feel like a 3 on a scale of 1 to 10. Don’t feel any better but I don’t feel any worse. I’m just worried that I’m gonna start comfort eating again and gain yet more weight. A battle that I’m fighting and currently loosing

Maybe comfort gaming or something else? Idk. I'm bad with advice usually. Either way, I hope you feel better.

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Post by djd001 » 23 May 2023, 22:10

Snowballs wrote:
23 May 2023, 19:38
Elgood81 wrote:
23 May 2023, 19:17
today I feel like a 3 on a scale of 1 to 10. Don’t feel any better but I don’t feel any worse. I’m just worried that I’m gonna start comfort eating again and gain yet more weight. A battle that I’m fighting and currently loosing

Maybe comfort gaming or something else? Idk. I'm bad with advice usually. Either way, I hope you feel better.
No you're on it, that's what I do, just losing myself in a virtual world, yes it masks the true feelings for a period, but that is what distraction techniques are, or so my therapist said... but in my experience it slows it down into more manageable pieces, but each person is different.
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Post by Ojisama » 23 May 2023, 23:30

Sorta OK. I've been a bit out of it this week. I think the lack of training is starting to get me down.
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Post by Rich-Allen1976 » 24 May 2023, 08:16

Annoyed.

Despite extensive efforts, Laura can't find the staff or the hours to attend the Lincolnshire Championships in Grantham next month! Fuck the care sector and the no staff issues!

I wouldn't mind but i gave her like, a month's notice, even though the entries close on Friday so I would've had to pay for the entry tonight.
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Post by lolin » 24 May 2023, 14:09

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Post by Rich-Allen1976 » 24 May 2023, 16:35

Annoyed (again)

I've just got rejected for that Museum job I applied for last week, probably because I did what I always do and declared my disability issues and fact I can only do very limited hours due to personal circumstances! I wouldn't mind but direct discrimination's supposed to be illegal under the Equality Act.
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Post by Ojisama » 24 May 2023, 22:30

richardallen1976 wrote:
24 May 2023, 16:35
Annoyed (again)

I've just got rejected for that Museum job I applied for last week, probably because I did what I always do and declared my disability issues and fact I can only do very limited hours due to personal circumstances! I wouldn't mind but direct discrimination's supposed to be illegal under the Equality Act.

I sympathise with your situation, especially when I am in similar circumstances, but the anti discrimination laws are not a "get a job for free" card. What they are meant for is that if you have two people who are equally suitable for a position, it is illegal to deny the position on the grounds of disability etc.

If you can't fulfil the job requirements, you wont be successful in your applications. If the job requires you to work evenings/nights, and you can't, you wont get the job. If the job is for 8 hour shifts and you can't work more than 4 hours, you won't get the job. If the job is to spend long times standing and walking around, and you can't stay on your feet for more than 30 minutes, you won't get the job. If the job requires working weekends, and you can't work on Saturdays, you won't get the job...and so on.

If you are lucky, you might find a position where the conditions can be changed to fit your circumstances. Yes, declare your circumstances, but also make positive statements about what you CAN do. I used to work with somebody who had trouble being on their feet for more than a couple of hours, so they had their break time broken up into more frequent, shorter ones.

I've worked with partially sighted and partially hearing colleagues, and colleagues with medical conditions that would impact their working time, and they got those positions by being positive and assertive about what they COULD do.
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Post by TheRedWarrior » 25 May 2023, 10:25

I'm in a small of pain due to having bad heartburn.


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Post by Ojisama » 25 May 2023, 11:55

Sweaty! Shower soon.
To those just starting on the journey of life I say...
Bang your own drum. Walk your own path. Live wildly. Love fiercely. 
As you near the end, look back with no regrets.

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