Momogari wrote: ↑19 May 2021, 10:321) yes, some people don't want to socialize sometimes
2) you're also just anxious
It can happen in the middle of a conversation and it takes a rare level of trust and familiarity to be able to say I want to go be alone now. That's usually impossible. I think the only people I could say that to on AL are Naoki because I've known her for years and lolin because she super understands shit like that. With everyone else, you just kinda avoid it or make up an excuse so that you can get out of being social and go recharge. Introvert problems.
And then there's anxious people that see this and start thinking it's a problem with them or the relationship, and that reaction makes it stressful on both sides. Chill.
I am genuinely trying to chill, but I've tried so hard to socialise with the person in question and all I get are one-word replies so hopefully you can see why I'm a little upset right now :'c I need to remember that not everyone is sociable like I try to be, but it hurts when I put a certain level of effort into a conversation and the replies I receive are far-from what I was hoping for - I get you though, not everyone wants to talk but I'm seriously close to stopping conversations with certain people as I've tried and tried with these people to be friendly but no, not anymore... However these changes I'll be implementing will upset me as I did at one point want to get along with everyone on this forum, but the amount of people who genuinely dislike me is quite extensive which surprises me as I've done is be as friendly as possible, I've never insulted anyone etc, but I know fora fact that there are a group of individuals here who dislike me (which includes 1 staff member) and report me every time I do or say things that they don't like - that might be my paranoia talking, but I wish whoever had a problem with me would just speak up so we can resolve any issues that are getting in the way of us being friends at least